Hello, I was having abad time too.Then the Haviland Group put out a DNA test.Several of us sent for and recieved the test,and turned in the results.I am one of the those and my DNA matched.
I do not want you to give up when you see different spellings of our name.Do have a male member of your family that would send for a DNA
kit.They use cotton swabs in your mouth.Keep in touch.Philip A. Heavirland