i know it has been quite awhile since you made this post so i hope you see this.
I am not sure about Jewell Haviland but I noticed she was buried in OK. My father and his brother were abandoned by their motherat a young age. They didnt know their father. The only reason I say this is the last they heard of their mother was that she was in Oklahoma. We are in OHIO. My father would have been born in 1942. His brother is a year or 2 older(maybe 3). They lived in the Bedford Ohio area.
contact me at kingodawg@ameritech.net if you want to see if their is any connection.