My mother and my father seperated when i was too young to remember. His name was neil southam and he lived in the west norwood area with his mother who went by the name of lee. We went to visit our grandmother (my brother anthony and i) till i was about 5 wen we suddenly stopped and had no contact with them. However i have never met my father but have seen him twice.As far as i know he now lives in the norbury area. He has a father called Edward Mc dade and a sister called rosellen who live in glasgow.