I have been married to an Nigerian since 3 and half years but has stayed away from him coz of my Job in Kuwait, and he lives in India looking after our business, and the same time i have run out of age at 44 and my husband says that we can be together only if i have a child i dnt what to do so i have decided to adopt a child may it be a boy or girl and african look, i am ready to take responsibilities, please advice